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A principal function of the mediator in most disputes is to manage negotiations regarding money. When the time finally comes to discuss dollars, I sense that many attorneys fear disclosing their true objective to their mediator, convinced it will undermine their ability to achieve that objective. While at first blush that fear might seem to make perfect sense, my experiences as a mediator have taught me otherwise.  


After nearly four hours of mediation, the gap separating the parties had been reduced to $70,000. Defendant was not willing to make another move, but I sensed plaintiff still had room to negotiate. With the permission of counsel for plaintiff, I offered to present a Mediator’s Proposal for the parties to consider — an offer that counsel for defendant immediately refused, explaining that his adjuster had no interest in having me present a Mediator’s Proposal. Given defendant’s position, the mediation ended for the day.  


Long before I ever contemplated transitioning from litigator to mediator, I learned a valuable lesson about the power of communicating “visually” in mediation – one I have never forgotten.

I was defending a real estate brokerage in a nondisclosure claim for which plaintiff was seeking substantial damages. Counsel for plaintiff requested an opening joint session, to which I agreed. Using an exceptionally well-constructed computer presentation, he proceeded to preview what he was planning to show and tell the jury in his opening statement if the matter proceeded to trial.  

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